Study title

The present study examined the associations between couples’ level of relationship quality and the usage of pronouns reflecting a couples' sense of we-ness/separateness in the context of support interactions. The concept of togetherness is operationalized by two lexical categories that reflect the pronoun usage during a conversation between partners: (a) we-ness (we-words; e.g. we, ours, ourself), pronouns that refer to the couple as a collective entity and (b) separateness (you- and me-words; e.g. me, mine, you, yours), pronouns that refer to the individual partner. The above mentioned associations were tested using a laboratory-based observational study within a sample of 49 flemish heterosexual couples in long-term relationships. Couples provided questionnaire data (demographics and relationship quality) and participated in two videotaped social support interaction tasks in which both partners alternated between the role of support seeker or provider. Couples’ videotaped interactions were subsequently coded for the amount of personal pronouns spoken by both partners (i.e. we-ness/separateness). Preliminary results showed that couples’ self-reported relationship quality was positively associated with their level of we-ness, but not separateness, as expressed during their videotaped support interactions.

Research conducted in Dutch.

Dataset is translated in English but is based on Dutch spoken interactions. Transcripts and pronoun-categories are in Dutch.

The data was deposited in file formats .sav and .xlsx, DANS converted these files to .por and .dta, and .csv for the benefit of STATA users and for durability reasons.

An article based on these data has been submitted to Open Access magazine Frontiers.